Who are you to judge us?

** Warning: this is not munirAh the mOmmy of triplets writting...but a hormone rising post natal woman... Proceed with caution.



Recently, someone past a comment saying how come even with a maid we (syauQi and I) find it rather tiring to handle our 3 kids (or should I emphasis that we have 3 BABIES, not kids).

Well, yup u may have more children than us but do we need to emphasis that ours are all very much dependent on us. Whereas your children are all of a different age group. If your eldest happen to be 6 years old and youngest still a baby, you only need to feed the youngest. But in my case, all 3 have yet hold their own bottle. (yes, unfortunately hArith and athirAh simply refused to hold their own bottle, they can carry any other heavier stuffs except for the bottle). And do you still need to chase around your 6 year old child? No you don't aight? Unlike us, where we contanstly need to have an eye on them all the time...crawling, climbing everywhere. And as for athirAh we really need an extra eye for her coz she puts everything in her mouth.

And even though you have more kids than us, do you need to bathe all of them, change their diapers, dukung them, suap them, put them to sleep (and the list goes one)? No aight? And i'm sure you get more hours of sleep than us! We have to attend to 3 babies in the middle of the night, each of them wakes up at different hours of the night. Oh I can't remember having more than 2 hours of sleep uninterupted since the birth of uZair. So how can you judge us for not being able to handle our babies.

Yes, we do have a maid...but it is not as though the babies are with the maid all the time. The babies are very much attach to us. It makes me feel like crying to see either hArith or athirAh play by themselves. So even though I'm in confinement, I still dukung hArith and athirAh, golek2 and play with them. (hArith is 10kg while athirAh is 7kg). They are soo attach to us that they demand that we put them to sleep. Even grandma tak laku to put them to sleep.

In fact my makcik urut pun bising kate my peranakan jatuh lar...dah urut pun masih jatuh not yet back in position. Mau taknye...the very next day after beranak I dah dukung hArith.

Seriously, I don't think it is fair for you to judge us. We are totally in two different league. You may have 4 or 5 children, but we have 3 BABIES. So takyah lar comment kate ade maid pun tak larat ke?...or takyah lar smpai kate suruh anta to her and she will jaga. Or maybe I really should hantar to her... and see can she really handle it.